last updated: 2018

Welcome to my blog! I am so glad you are here and I am blessed to be able to glorify the Lord with my readers!

The first thing you should know is the meaning of my blog name – You Him and Her – so you can better understand where I am coming from. The “You” represents YOU, the reader. The “Him” represents God, our Almighty Father. The “Her” represents me.

I have the hard-won gift of Empathy/Burden Bearing and Intercessing. My desire from the Lord is to guide others back into the arms of our Father. I now see that our trials and pain are necessary – and beautiful. I want to lead other women by example and help them find their identities in Christ again, or for the first time. The feeling of catching a glimpse of yourself in the mirror and seeing the Father in you, instead of the lies you have believed for so long, is what every woman needs to feel.

I have been blessed with an amazing husband and 4 beautiful children. I thought I knew what my role as a wife was and all it entailed. Oh, was I wrong. His truth holds our answers to being a wife and how to be one that pleases Him. It takes time, and for me, it took acceptance of my role, but it is so freeing.

I am a motherless – mother. I have always battled with the confusion of wondering why I didn’t feel motherly. Where is my joy, God? Why am I angry? Well, He answered and is still working in me. I now feel His joy. THIS is why I have to write the testimonies in my life and reach other women. I never thought that joy would be possible within me. I never thought that I could live a happy, great life without being depressed but it is more than possible!

I want to lead, guide, uplift, and encourage other women with not just my words but with my experience. I walk the walk to be able to talk the talk.

I have chosen to live my one life in the Will He has for it while being the woman, wife, and mother He created and needs me to be.

Kristen Newman

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